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Just a Thought: Are You Hurting? | Pastor Steve Smothermon


You may have heard the phrase, “hurting people hurt people.” There is so much brokenness in this world, and so many hurting people today. It is well known that those who have been emotionally damaged tend to inflict their hurt on others. People who have suffered abuse, at times, become abusers themselves. Those who have suffered under an alcoholic parent often cause their future family to suffer because they become alcoholics.


Because of this pain, ordinary words are often misinterpreted as negative towards them. Have you ever met someone who is overly sensitive? That no matter what you say, they seem to take it wrong. They are extremely sensitive and act out of pain and fear instead of reality. This emotional pain causes them to suspect wrong motives behind others’ actions toward them. That hurt causes them to use the words "unfair" or "unjust" to describe the way they are being treated, even if there is no truth to it.

Hurt can cause paranoia; it’s very deceptive. This is why hurting people hurt people. We allow that hurt to destroy our lives. No wonder Jesus came to heal the brokenhearted. Hurt causes so much pain to the person who has been hurt and to those around them. If you have experienced hurt, God often exposes it so that He can heal it. Instead of hiding it, begin to deal with it, and ask God to heal it so that you can live a more peaceful and fulfilled life.

Just a thought,

Pastor Steve Smothermon

Legacy Church
7201 Central Ave NW, Albuquerque, NM 87121
Phone (505) 831-0961
Website https://www.legacychurchnm.com

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In this book, you will learn that generosity is not primarily about finances. Rather, it involves a profound transformation from a self-serving, me-first lifestyle to one where living for others becomes central to your being.
You will discover:

- The dangers of being trapped in a limited perspective.
- The steps to achieving a transformed heart.
- The secret of intentional generosity.
- How to overcome a bitter spirit.
- The journey from greed to compassion.
- How to live a fulfilling, generous life.
- And much more.

The author expresses a heartfelt wish that as you read these pages, your heart, mind, and soul will be open to embracing a spirit of generosity. This will lead to a life-changing experience.

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